One Small Thing

As I look back on this past tumultuous year, I find myself immersed in a sea of reflections; those things that brought me pain and those that filled my heart with joy and peace. The pain often stemmed from elements beyond my control; challenges I felt ill-equipped to face. Yet, in contrast, the moments of joy and tranquility emerged from my choice to embrace happiness: the laughter of friends, the accomplishments of those I admire, and the small gestures of love that whisper gently into my life.

Every night, as I lay my head on my pillow, I take a moment to reflect on the day and contemplate how I can be a better person tomorrow. I consider the positivity I can bring to the world and how I can contribute to making it a better place. In my pursuit of growth, I often wrestle with doubt, questioning the impact I can have and the futility and audacity to raise my voice amid the vast ocean of opinions as though I am yelling into the void. The grip of imposter syndrome can be deafening, filling my mind with familiar clichés. But I recognize that I don’t need to speak in platitudes like “be the change” or “happiness is a choice”; instead, my commitment lies in a deeper mission.

In my journey to end child marriage, I have encountered those unaware of the complexities surrounding women’s oppression and the negative ramifications of patriarchy. While the subject matter may be dark, I find joy in the mission itself, in the camaraderie of fellow survivors, in the passion of advocates, and the excitement of envisioning a better world. By focusing on solutions rather than problems, I strive to create the outcomes I desire, cultivating self-awareness, compassion, understanding, and authenticity along the way.

This year has undoubtedly been challenging for many, and it’s fair to wish for better days ahead. It’s rare to hear someone say, “What a great year, I’ll miss it.” We often strive to level up while casting blame on the year, rather than reflecting on our own actions. What did you do to improve yourself or your surroundings? Were you a good neighbor? Did you remind your friends they matter? Did you tell your children they mean the world to you? Did you achieve any of the goals you set last year? What is one small thing you did that you are proud of?

Don’t shy away from standing up for your beliefs, but remember not to alienate others in the process. Foster curiosity and thoughtfulness, and share kindness and laughter whenever possible.

This year, I’ve navigated the roller coaster of the publishing industry with my book, weathered the ever-changing real estate market, and infused more color into my life. Perhaps a little less black and white and a little more controlled chaos. I’ve become more discerning about who I allow into my space and have consciously chosen to pursue happiness and embody generosity every day. I’ve experienced the joy of deep friendships and the privilege of helping friends and clients with their real estate needs. I’ve had the honor of being present in my children’s lives. I’ve felt the sorrow of loss and gained depth of perception. I’ve cried, and I’ve laughed until I cried.

Most of all, I’ve learned to listen and become more self‑aware. I am healing. I am a work in progress.

While I do not have a crystal ball, I know what next year will hold for me; possibilities, love, friendship, travel, and a steadfast commitment to making a positive impact, starting with myself. I pledge to be the change I wish to see, to show kindness, beginning with self-compassion, and to raise

my voice against injustice. These are not mere New Year’s resolutions; they are daily intentions that guide my journey toward becoming a better human.

Let’s remember that it starts with us, right at home. Commit to doing one small thing every day that fills you with pride. Share the beautiful light within you. Release what brings you pain and embrace this adventurous life. Enjoy the snow, for it will transform into summer before we know it. Welcome the spring storms for their revitalizing power. Cherish joyful moments and strive for a better planet.

What is one small thing you will choose to do today? Make it count.

Happy New Year

One Small Thing